“I want to live in separate houses,” she said. We were sitting on the living room floor. She had just unwrapped the handcrafted silk scarf I bought her in a remote Bavarian Village. I had realized, racing that test-drive BMW Z-3, (not yet released in the in the States) through those Alpine peaks, that my marriage was dead. Not foully murdered. No blood. No viciousness. Just — like that famed Norwegian Blue parrot of Monty Python fame, standing only because it had been nailed to its perch; this marriage had ceased to be. Had expired and gone to meet its maker. This was an ex marriage. So being the dutiful husband and father of two small boys that I was, I bought her a beautiful gift and came home to suggest that we sell our house and travel around the world – in other words – resurrect ourselves, find a way to make it work.
Women want your boldness. They crave it. So our theme of 2013 will be: BOLDNESS.
Boldness is what you require to take your already attractive qualities and make them MAGNETIC and MASCULINE to women. Like picking up a coin and polishing it to a shine, without apology. Right now, you’re hiding. Ask women – they will tell you straight-out.
You are hiding your male sexuality because you think it’s inappropriate.
You’re hiding your desire because you’re afraid of getting shot down.