Are You a Guy Who Wants to Really Please Women in Bed?
In fact, do you want to be the kind of man who pleases them so much that YOU are the man whose bed they want to come back to over and over again?
Are you also someone who does not ever really feel confident that he knows exactly WHAT it is that women really want from a man in bed?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, then I’ve got two things to tell you:
One, you are NOT alone,
(cause these are some of the most COMMON things I hear from the guys I’ve coached over the last 11 years) and Two, YOU are the guy who CAN and WILL be able to make women feel amazing and incredible in bed!
So let me give you some of the KEY and TOP tips that will IMMEDIATELY make you create amazing passion and desire for you in any woman you have in your bed.
So let’s say you’re dating a woman now whose only sexual experiences have been with men that are “pump and dumpers.”
For those of you who don’t know what a pump and dumper is — they are who I call “minutemen.”
I am not talking about minutemen from the Revolutionary War…
These “minutemen” guys get in, they thrust their hips, they pump a few times, and then they dump all their little men (all their little “sea-men” to swim all over the place). A lot of women who are young (and some unfortunately who are older) have only been with “pump and dumpers,” and they have no idea of how unbelievably amazing sex can be with an attentive, sexually aware man. They don’t know sex and foreplay start right inside a woman’s mind.
So let’s say you’ve done it all right. You’ve started sex and foreplay by seducing her mind and you have her all turned on. I know you may be thinking, “OK, David, that’s GREAT… so what EXACTLY DO we do?”
How do you encourage this woman – who is basically very submissive in bed due to the fact that all of her experience is with Mr. “Pump and Dump?”
First a little insight into this woman’s mindset…
The reason why she is submissive, much of the time, is that she has never explored her own sexuality. A lot of women that have had “pump and dumpers” don’t know what they want sexually, and they are usually women who have never masturbated. They don’t know what feels good and what doesn’t. So how DO you encourage this woman to open up to her own sexuality?
Here are some of the TOP TECHNIQUES you can and should use to create maximum desire for you in bed:
DESIRE-CREATING TIP #1
First of all, this woman may or may not have ever had an orgasm before.
>>Tip: I would assume that she never has. She thinks she might be having an orgasm – it might be a momentary wave – but she is not having a full-blown orgasm.
If you ask her if she’s had an orgasm, and she says, “I think so” – then you have your answer. There is no “I think so” when it comes down to orgasms. Either you’ve had one or you haven’t!
If a woman will tell you that she thinks she had an orgasm, it means that she has probably only experienced a little wave of pleasure and not a full orgasmic experience.
DESIRE-CREATING TIP #2
So let’s assume that she’s never had an orgasm. You’ve got to become the teacher in this relationship. She is probably the type of woman who just expects you to do whatever you want to do, and she’ll just lie there submissively. So YOU need to show her slowly how amazing sex is.
I would take some extra time and give her a full body massage. I would spend extra time kissing her and just touching her, everywhere except in her breast and her groin area. I would take extra time when I go down on her and not only lick her, but to also touch all parts of her body also at the same time. I would also slip one finger inside as I was licking her in order to give her a different experience. I wouldn’t ask her if she is coming. I would just continually do all the things that I know bring pleasure to a woman, and I would ask her,
“How does that feel for you? Are you enjoying this? How do you like the pressure? I want to please you and I want to make you feel amazing.”
Don’t say, “I want to give you an orgasm.” Don’t tell her you want her to scream and yell.
Just say, “I want to make you feel wonderful. Okay?”
DESIRE-CREATING TIP #3
Then take your time. Allow her to open up and allow her to see sex in an entirely different light. Don’t expect the magical orgasm right away. Don’t expect her to open up immediately. Your only job is to show her – through a soothing, relaxing, attentive sexual session – just how great sex can be.
DESIRE-CREATING TIP #4
Another way to do it, too, is when you’re having sex with her, is to do the opposite of what the “pump and dumpers” have done. Hold her really close to you so she can feel the tightness and feel the sensuality of sex, and then grind in very slowly as you pull her close to you. That way your pubic bone is actually massaging her clit at the same time. By doing that and staying deep inside her, you’re going to give her feelings that she has not had before and you’re going to get her to open up. You may actually get her to start having a clitoral orgasm that way, in time. You are also going to show her a different side of sex, going to show her the sensuality of sex so that she can feel protected, warm, and nurtured during the experience.
Right now, all she feels is used. All she feels is that guys want to get inside, get off, and leave. So you’ve got to deal with the fact that she was with Mr. P & D. You’ve got to be tender and warm, and you’ve got to put absolutely no pressure on her at all. By following these simple steps and tips, you’re going to make her feel really comfortable, and you’re going to be able to get her to explore herself even more. She’ll surrender herself to you, in time, but you need to be very patient – because the other guys, the Mr. P & Ds, were not patient. It’s your turn to be patient now.