Online Dating

Let’s Meet Like Normal People

Adam Gilad
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When online dating fist emerged, people hid behind their online profiles and trust was a huge issue.

Women were afraid of wolves in sheep’s clothing, as well as married men and of course, dangerous men.

As well they should be.

But things have changed.  When any woman learns your name, the first thing she is going to do is Google you.

Take advantage of this.

Because some people still feel a little weird about online dating – as if it’s not part of the larger world (although everyone does it!)

Hell, one girlfriend of mine and I used to answer the question, “where’d you guys meet?” with the answer:  “Mensa” and “a child sacrifice.” Then we’d look at each other and switch answers.  Fun and funny, but mostly because people always try to hide where they met.

If you are a decent human being, then be upfront about your self-regard and make it work for you.

Write into your profile or into your letters the following type of line…

“Hey, I know online dating still feels weird for a lot of women, and I respect that safety is always an issue, so we can connect on Facebook or you can Google me.  I’m proud of the life I’ve build and of my friends and social circles, as I’m sure you are.  So feel free to write me and lets get to know each other like normal people.

If you’ve read Deep Online Attraction and follow the several tips on how to create trust (again – women are rightly cautious of meeting men online) then you will know what a crucial element this is in creating online dating success.

It’s just like any “business” – you have to think in the mind of your customer.  What are her concerns?  What are her hopes?  What is she on the lookout for?

Be sure to build trust deeply into your profile.  Feel “normal.”  And of course – earn her trust and continue to be trustworthy.

It makes for a better life and a better world.

To get learn how to build an amazing online profile that conveys trust and gets women to write you – check out my program Deep Online Attraction – right here.

This post currently has 2 comments.

  1. BARRY
    May 10, 2012


  2. Bill
    May 13, 2012

    I love this! I actually tried this approach once – but not with this kind of clarity. The woman disappeared from me. I believe that this type of conversation will resonate with a quality woman.
    I love this kind of material!! Upfront, authentic and bold!


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