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My Actual Online Profile – And Why It Works…

Adam Gilad
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You know what I love? Coming home to an inbox full of women who write me on my online dating sites. Dancers.  Yoginis.  PR girls.  Brokers.  Divorcees.  Grant Writers, lawyers.   And… an invitation to go yachting. And all in a couple of days. After a long boring marriage and a painful divorce, having the attention of all these women was salve for my hurtin’ soul. It changed my life. And it made me feel great.  I want you to feel great – so I’m going to break down an actual profile of mine and why it worked…

I saved the letters.  From a 98 pound yoga teacher…

“You are the guy i think i’ve been looking for…walt whitman…and you listen to krisna das…and do yoga, even sporadically…and you live not far from me…we should absolutely chat live…so call me at 213…”

From a nurse…

“I read so many profiles and they are all full of bs.  Just guys puffing out their chests.  I can see from your profile that you care – although I can’t tell if you’re in a “caring profession” like me.  You’re kind of a mystery… and that’s kind of sexy.”

I want you to have women write you online every day. And the way to do that is to transport their hearts, excite their minds and make something beautiful stir mysteriously inside simply by your intelligent choice of words and phrases. So I’m going to break down part of a profile of mine for you – and why it worked…

Here ya go…

“Mine is an energizing life full of warm, hi-vibing friends. And – bonus! – it comes with great soundtrack. Ella, Krall, Peyroux for lazy afternoons. Muse to sing loudly with in the car. Chopin or Krishna Das at bedtime. And, for the slopes — Metallica/Zep/ Floyd. Huge turn ons: wild coasts, big group friend dinners, soulful vocalists, Utah powder, people who work for something vast, and, more than anything… sudden, unbidden expressions of love…”

Let’s look at several key elements of what I’ve just done…

1. Mine is…”    Right away I invokie the Deep Online Attraction principle of “Invite Her Into Your Alluring Life” pp. 87-90.  Note the high energy words – electric, but also “warm” – which makes it safe and inviting.  You’ve got to pain a picture that she wants to enter.

2. And – bonus! – ”  Hey, everyone likes a bonus, and it’s a different way of saying “here’s the music I like” Suddenly my life has a soundtrack, which is kind of cool, like a movie.  She can project herself into a movie.  Plus feel like she got a bonus!

3. The music.  A lot is going on here.  Notice I created scenes for the music – again, providing the movie of my life she can and will project herself into.  Women always write they love lazy afternoons – because they can get their man’s full attention.  She joins me in the car.  On the slopes.  In my bedroom, which I mention by name for God’s sake!  I carefully selected music that carries an electric contrast  which is another principle I DOA explain HERE.   I chose a blend of really sultry, romantic female vocalists and then added Chopin to catch the attention of women who see themselves as classy, and then the very spiritual Krishna Das which is exotic and sexy (and yoga girls love it, so it’s a charged signal to them).  Finally, kickass rockin’ out music so I don’t sound too soft.

4.The “Turn-ons” list is a carefully constructed picture of guy with lots of friends, a wild, primal streak, like you’d find in Wuthering Heights or some other mad, romantic novel – then add the deep-heart of how moved I am by sudden expressions of love.  Happens to be true.  And… it happens to suggest to the subconscious mind that she might well be the recipient of these sudden, unearned expressions of love!  Again – electric contrast” wild coasts and snowboarding on one side –soulful and love on the other.

One paragraph – 4 MAJOR Signifier Sets, deployed in balance, and contrast.

I want you to take the simple details of your life…

… and polish them so they come ALIVE on the page as alluring scenes in your appealing life.

I want you to contrast them to she senses you are electrically uncontainable.  Both manly and sweet, ballsy and loving, rockin’ and romantic.  I show a whole slew of other contrasts to massage into your profile in Deep Online Attraction that might be more appropriate to your life.

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If you’ve already got  Deep Online Attraction –  crack it open and get to work! If you haven’t downloaded the Deep Online Attraction Program, please do so now here… 

Get DOA and get successful with women online now!

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