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Weekend Wisdom #6: Smashing The Threshold Of Your Fear

Adam Gilad
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“You’re being asked to say yes to a great unknown,

to an adventure that will be exciting but also
dangerous and even life threatening”

You don’t want to stay static forever…

You know you can’t stay static forever…

You know that life offers so much more than the stilted love, the
withheld truths, the self-crushed hopes for deep, hot, sweaty,
tear-drenched intimacy.

You want more.

The beauty. The sweet kisses. The sweaty nights. Flesh on flesh.
Lips on lips. Heart opened to heart – two bodies. One flesh.
All walls crumbled to powder. Truth.

You look at your life. Your job. Your apartment. Your friends.
The nights when you return home alone -with nothing for company
but the mocking glow of your computer screen.

You want more.

You want passion. You want adventure. You want crazy sensual
abandon, but more than anything else…

You want to feel ALIVE.

Because, deep inside, beneath the day-to-day obligations and
gettings-along– you know that this moment, this rest-stop in your
life is not enough.

You refuse to be stuck.

You refuse to fail in your quest for passion.

Because you know this is your life – your ONLY life…

And every day that you allow to pass without breaking through into
NEW realms of possibility, of boldness, of clarity is a waste of
another day…


“Some of us turn down the quest, some hesitate, some
are tugged at by families who fear for our lives and don’t
want us to go…”

Here’s the thing…

Those voices, your “family” may now be voices in your own head.
Telling you can’t win the girl of your dreams. Telling you that
you have to settle. Telling you that you are not worthy.

Those voices are not real.

To break through to the adventure, you’ve got to leave those voices

“You hear people mutter that the journey is
foolhardy, doomed from the start.”

Leave behind the dream-killers. I did.

I woke up every morning next to a woman who saw me as only a
reflection of her own limitations. Who hated my success, my
potential, my happiness, my joy – because, for her, it was a mirror
to her own fear of success.

I broke free.

It wasn’t easy. I had to break my family in half. I had to go
into debt. I had to bear the pain of dinners at restaurants with
me and my two boys, looking over at other tables of happy husbands
and wives with their kids – whole.

Was it worth it?


Because stasis in misery is NOT a way to live…

I left the “familiar zone” of a relationship and traveled into the
unknown forest of single life and discovered that this world is a
ready cornucopia of feminine love…

Women are waiting to love you…

To tend to you…

To offer their tender bodies – and their even more tender souls to

To soften the harshness, to bathe you in beauty, to calm your
heart, to remind you of what is primary and what is just social
b***shit, the masks people wear to get through the day

… and to bring alive your fantasies.

They yearn to bring you alive…

…as long as you bring yourself open to them – full-hearted,
full-souled, straight and honest, bold and true, light and




Can you be that for them?

Because they are waiting for you to be that for them.

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